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With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, finding the sweetest, sexiest gift for your partner that’ll make your alone time a bit more interesting is a priority. And while sweet treats, a sentimental card, or a cute stuffed animal are never a bad way to let your love know you’re thinking of them, a grown-up toy that you can both play with come nighttime/alone time is another way to elevate the day into something twice as memorable. (Plus, you can keep playing long after V-day has passed.)
We recommend our fair share of sex toys in these parts that run the gamut of styles, shapes, and aesthetics. Whether you want to give the gift of a toy that lets you both reach new heights of pleasure, one that levels-up your playtime with high tech features, or something that will let you experiment with a new kind of sexual experience, there’s something that everyone will at least be a little intrigued by. For Valentine’s Day in particular, it’s all about choosing a toy to really help your recipient get their love on. For a single friend, maybe that’s a top-ranked rabbit vibrator or suction toy; for your partner, maybe a toy that can join you in bed and enhance the experience for both of you. For those of us in long-distance relationships, maybe a long-distance toy is the one to grab. There are so many options, we understand if you’re overwhelmed! But don’t worry — we’re here to help.
Read on for our picks of the best sex toys to give and receive this Valentine’s Day. Pick up a few for your partner (or drop some hints now so they can gift you something good!) or snag one for yourself (because being your own Valentine is never a bad thing either!) or a friend (Galentine’s Day gifts, anyone?).
A version of this story was published February 2021.
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LELO Enigma
Celebrate Valentine’s Day with some versatility — Enigma is a dual stimulator toy that has the best of both worlds when it comes to suction/clitoral stimulation and internal G-spot stimulation.
LELO Enigma$296.09
on Amazon.com
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LELO Sila
A powerful suction toy that uses sonic waves to create highly-stimulating sensations (without rumbling or contact), LELO’s Sila is also whisper quiet and totally easy to clean and discreetly put away ’til next time.
LELO Sila$126.80 $169.00 25% Off
on Amazon.com
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The One Rose Clitoral Stimulator
Want to give a different kind of flower bouquet this year? TikTok loves this suction-based Rose vibe that’s way more powerful than its cute appearance would have you think. It comes with three different speeds and seven patterns of suction and pulsing to keep you on your toes.
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LELO Ora
Just shy of the Uncanny Valley, Ora is a high-tech toy that simulates oral sex. No, seriously. With the right lube, the soft but firm rotating nub delivers a sensation similar to a tongue, making it great for foreplay or just a slowburn orgasm.
LELO Ora 3$116.99 $179.00 35% Off
on Amazon.com
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Dame Eva
Dame Eva is the ultimate couple’s toy (though it’s great for solo use too!) because it’s totally hands-free and designed to stay snugly in place in your vulva during all your various bed activities. For Valentine’s Day, it’s kind of like a gift for your partner and yourself.
Dame Eva$111.99 $139.99 20% Off
on Amazon.com
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LELO Smart Wand 2
If we were going to nail down two or three types of must-have vibrators, a reliable wand would always make that list — and LELO’s Smart Wand 2 would totally be the MVP of your collection. It’s a large massager (seriously, she’s big!) that brings big sensations to wherever you’d like to feel them and ten different massage patterns that work on your sore muscles just as well as your erogenous zones. (We love versatility!)
LELO Smart Wand 2$118.30 $169.00 30% Off
on Amazon.com
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Rianne S. Heart Vibe
This pretty hand-held heart vibrator is right on theme for Valentine’s Day, and as a bonus, it’s subtle (and cute) enough to keep up for seasonal nightstand decor, if you feel so inclined. Plus, this little vibe comes with 10 speeds to play with, so you won’t be getting bored anytime soon.
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Maude Vibe
The Maude Vibe is by far one of the cutest and most discreet vibrators I’ve ever owned. It’s small and very mighty, easy to recharge, clean and handle and makes for a pretty and highly practical present.
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Crave Vesper Necklace Vibrator
Jewelry is a Valentine’s Day standby we all can get behind — but how about a versatile piece offering significantly more bang for your buck? The sleek and pretty Crave Vesper can go along on date night without being obvious, making room for discreet, sexy times for all.
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Heart-Shaped Glass Massager
Give a gift that lasts this Valentine’s Day with this glass massager, appropriately pink and heart-shaped for the holiday. It’s totally non-porous (aka easy to clean!) and is designed to last a lifetime, the brand says, when cared for properly. You can use it for anal or vaginal play and reviewers say it’s small enough to be a good choice for beginners.
Icicles Glass Massager$24.45
on Amazon.com